Just some things that have been on my mind ....

Its Friday Night and I'm in chillin soooooo hard. I love it because, I don't have to be anywhere, I'm not late for anything, and I don't have anything to do for anyone except myself. I'm getting some serious me time in and its long over due. I'm def gonna use this weekend wisely cause fall break is in a week and then its all down hill from there!! Tonight its all about getting organized and taking care of me then tomorrow its some work I've been meaning to do. Might hang out with Erica then back here to chill and go to my ACE's birthday party. She's turned 22 today and I cant believe it! I cant imagine turning 22, 21 was like whoa but 22 is GROWN!!!! I guess that's what its all about but I have some time until then, Junes a little ways off.
Its raining Cats and Dogs in the RIC and its bringing back sweet memories of when I had a man. The dreary weather equaled serious QT. Its all good though, I still have QT with myself, taking care of the things that will get me far in life. It seems like having a man is the hot topic right now. Soooooo many people are getting married to their boyfriends or having a man that its kinda crazy. Is everyone going through a midlife crisis or something???? I just don't get it. I mean marriage is something I hold sacred and I don't want no half steppin lame askin me for my hand with anything less than a little blue box in his hand. I had this convo with my sorors the other night as we digress from programs (lol) at our committee meeting /powwow. Promise rings, engagements and all that other crap... not now.... and as far as I'm concerned not ever! If you cant afford a ring for me where the clasp aren't bigger than the stone than forget it and just tell me your gonna be my boyfriend but "fuhreal fuhreal" LMAO Its not all about the ring but it represents a lot. It reps all that you know about me and all that you want for our relationship!! I'm sorry Kay, Finks, Zales, the gumball machine... aint gonna cut it. " I aint sayin she a golddigger, but she aint messin wit no broke nigga." Hey it bes like that

But seriously you have to look at it like that, you cant rush into things. Having a man aint all glory and holding hands and walking in the park, and whispering sweet nothings and crap, save that for GONE WITH THE WIND OR PRIDE AND PREDIGESTED. I feel like if you don't argue at some point(not everyday,but at some point) then HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM!!!! Everybody's quick to find a man, girls are going to such extents as to meet guys off the internet....FOR WHYYYYY????? Its not that serious. I mean we have a case in Richmond right now where a girl is missing and another is apparently dead( May she rest in peace) from being involved with an internet relationship. You never know who your messing with and it could land you in a spot that you don't wanna be in.

I aint prechin' folks, I'm just sayin take it slow and don't be ashamed to focus on yourself My Mom always says... out of all your mothers children you should love yourself the best!!! Cause at the end of the day, nobody can love you the way you wanna be loved but you!!


Off the soap box and laying it down